IвЂ™d say Reflectors need to be lone wolves to a certain degree to stay sane. I guess itвЂ™s a protective mechanism - when youвЂ™re sensitive to everyoneвЂ™s energy, you can get hurt more easily, and deeper. I thought I finally have a circle of friends, only to realize that after a while I started to вЂњfloatвЂќ above it and peel away. I encounter the same pattern when I started high school, college and grad school. Floating above it all so I donвЂ™t have to engage with otherвЂ™s energies, thoughts, and crap. (IвЂ™m pretty high-functioning individual from the outside.) Then I start to withdraw. I engage ok in social situations for an hour, maybe two. Taking on everyoneвЂ™s crap for too long is not healthy. Then I realize either I can be accepted by people I donвЂ™t really give two shits about, or I can be myself and at peace.

Not exactly acting вЂњas expectedвЂќ in close-knitted Chinese society.Д¬all me anti-social. My response? I thought вЂњoh wellвЂќ and didnвЂ™t give a shit. Social Interaction/RelationshipД®ven when I was a little girl, I knew my relatives called me вЂњaloofвЂќ behind my back. It turned me into a reluctant wanderlust - IвЂ™ve a love-hate relationship with my occasional urge to anchor myself deeply into a community while knowing that IвЂ™d later have the urge to detach. ThatвЂ™s why I loved to travel in my early days - itвЂ™s easier to be floating above a physical location without being defined by it. The need to belong is human nature and often I feel being pulled in two different directions. ItвЂ™s not easy to be floating in this world with no anchor. I donвЂ™t have strong affiliation to any group, I donвЂ™t identify myself with any ideology or association. If IвЂ™m attached to a label, I kill the fluidity in me. I do what I do, and labels are confining.

IвЂ™m not attached to labels, and labels have very little effect on me. Really, I donвЂ™t have much an opinion what I call myself. In a way, I donвЂ™t care about this identity thing. Reflectors sample all the energies around them so itвЂ™s particularly hard to define ONE identity. ItвЂ™s just one womanвЂ™s account of living as oneвЂ¦ Identity Until someone decides to put me on a purple pillow and feed me good wine and dark chocolate all day, I still have to brave the вЂњreal worldвЂќ and bath in other peopleвЂ™s thoughts and energiesвЂ¦ and IвЂ™m screwed if IвЂ™m in the wrong soup. But living with all those open centers? Harder than you think. Looks good on paper, and you may think thereвЂ™s nothing to bitch about. So they can finally sell their products and services in a way that excites them. As long as theyвЂ™re doing meaningful work, and willing to be open and honest, I can tell from their energy if the message and strategies they come up with are in alignment with them. I donвЂ™t care if my clients are selling cantaloupe widgets that I know nothing about. They donвЂ™t have to journal till they turn blue, or rehash some past experiences for the 12th time with no new insights. I turn their crap into a narrative so they can finally sink their teeth in and work through them. I do a lot of вЂњpersonal growthвЂќ heavy lifting for my clients. These superpowers make my work with coaching clients super efficient because I can вЂњget to the bottom of itвЂќ and find their soul-aligned message within a session or two. WeвЂ™re super empaths because we can take in otherвЂ™s energy, understand, experience and amplify it without mucking it up with our own. WeвЂ™ve the capability to see and feel everything as they are because we donвЂ™t have any definition in our energy centers. Being around them 24/7 without enough time to discharge the energy has taken a toll on my open sacral.Д«eing a Reflector sounds like some cool shitвЂ¦ after all less than 1% of the population are Reflectors.ДЄccording to Human Design specialists, Reflectors are here to вЂњmove humanity forward.вЂќ My older son is a Generator, and my younger son is another Manifesting-Generator.ДЄll of them have defined sacral, and the two MGs have a lot of defined centers. My husband, whoвЂ™s working from home temporarily, is a Manifesting-Generator. Nothing dramatic - just because itвЂ™s spring break.Д«ut if youвЂ™re a Reflector in Human Design like me, itвЂ™s totally possible. Cocktail hour was moved to 3pm by Thursday. For the entire freaking week.Д«y Wednesday of the week, I broke down. Being the 1% in Human Design :: A ReflectorвЂ™s Reflection

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